mixedmedia

well, no you're not...

both little_tippler and myself found this to be alarming...

I think we used softer wording, though, lol...but, myself, I would be very dismayed if a boyfriend I was serious about said that to me. I don't know if I'd ever get past it...not because I'm over-sensitive or insecure but because it betrays a thoughtlessness and insensitivity that I just couldn't abide.

Sorry, LC, you probably have a much more generous sense of forgiveness than I do and that's cool.

But since World's Queen brought it up....

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