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Mixed has wise advice, as usual. Also, she is right when she mentioned it is difficult to give advice in these situations. There are usually many other issues at hand that aren't even on the table yet.
My take on this is that you have self-image issues, which a lot of people have. He enjoys looking at porn, which a lot of men do. You have your own issues, but are pushing them onto the other person.
My husband looks at porn. I'm 5'7 and 120 lbs. I have many exhibition photos. Why does he look at porn? He's a guy. I could get upset and say that he looks at it because he wishes I had bigger breasts. But I realize that him looking at porn has nothing to do with me.
Your fiance looking at porn has nothing to do with *you*. Just as you losing weight shouldn't have anything to do with *him*. You do what you want to do and he will do what he wants to do. However, you need to communicate your feelings and realize that you can only change and control *your* actions and reactions.
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