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Originally Posted by little_tippler
I have a love-hate relationship with mine.
There's things visually I like and others I don't. I think generally it looks nice, it's a nice pink shade and the labia are quite small. I hate having hair there though, but I don't really like to shave or wax it, the first instance because of regrowth, the second instance because it fucking hurts and is expensive to get done (besides the fact that some strange woman is getting a real close look there - do not like that). I do shave it most of the time though because I love the way it feels. I always leave a little hair up top (on the pubis) for decoration 
Physically, it's highly sensitive and pain can often be an issue for me, which annoys me no-end as I do like it hard and rough some of the time. I am also damned tight and though it can be good for the guy, sometimes I just wish it would let up a little. I have been told childbirth may help that (!). I can come quickly from clitoral stimulation, in a matter of seconds, but usually it takes quite a while for a guy to get me there, if at all. don't think I have ever come solely from penetration. So physically it's not the finest tuned of things! I'm working on understanding it better every day though.
By the way I have to say I'm thoroughly enjoying this set of threads, it's very educational...and I confess, a bit of a turn on  |
Thanks for contributing, little_tippler.
I've become quite a fan of depilatory creams, even though I know a lot of other ladies hate them. I've gotten pretty good at applying them, though, and it eliminates the bumps and quick re-sprouting that I got from shaving. They take some patience and dexterity to apply correctly, but I've found them to be a cheap and easy way to elimate hair from the bikini area.
And, it took me years and years to get to the point where I could orgasm from intercourse. A huge part of it is foreplay...getting excited to the point where the slightest clitoral contact will set you off. But, and I learned this in my first marriage in which I was the dominant sex partner, if a woman wants to orgasm from intercourse, the combination of fantasy and correct hip placement is
crucial. And that may sound bad, or selfish, or something, but it's not - women deserve to get as much satisfaction from intercourse as men do. Once you become accustomed to which positions and angles make you respond (just like with masturbation), it becomes easier to achieve orgasm and it frees you to be a more present and aggressive sex partner. And generally, guys like that. Just my two cents worth on the 'orgasm during intercourse' thing.