Hmm. My boyfriend and I say it during sex all the time and we really mean it. I love him for many reasons, not just sexual, but we both love sex very much and I think it's totally appropriate to tell each other while we're engaged in it. We also say it on the phone, on the couch, in the kitchen, sitting in the bed watching movies...we say it all the time. I don't place any significance on the time and place we say it.
So, if saying 'I love you' during sex cheapens the words, does that mean that sex is cheap???
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