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Originally Posted by abaya
I've tried that, but it's hard to get into a rhythm when we're missionary and my hand is getting moved all over the place from our movements. Also, for whatever reason, I find it less sexy when I have to stimulate myself, though sometimes (very rarely) it does work. Just takes a hell of a lot of work... and we don't have the energy or patience on weeknights.
But I agree with you, little_tippler... would be so nice to come every time, but it just doesn't seem feasible.  |
Isn't it also hard for your man to provide clitoral stimulation in the missionary position?
When we have just a little time for a quickie like you may have on weeknights here is what we do:
My SO lays back on the kitchen table or the edge of the bed and I stand up with my feet on the floor. It's not quite as intimate as the true missionary position but it leaves my hands free to stimulate her clitoris and her hands are free to do the same when she feels like it. This position also allows me to watch her do so and that is a real turn-on for me.
Again, with practice, we usually both manage to come together in about five minutes or less. We both prefer to take our time when we have the time but this method is great for our quickies.