Originally Posted by little_tippler

Well, I am able to make myself come pretty fast, depending on my mood...as for them, that's another story. It's not to do with my being able to get it to happen fast or slow or all the time. I just wish I could have it all the time, because I know it's what I want.

I am pretty much like you, it takes quite some effort for a guy to make me come, so I end up waiting on it a lot too. I wish I could come from a quick romp with a guy, because the idea is exciting- but it just ain't happening (well at least not so far! He may still be out there )

It is nothing to do with what is appropriate. I am just being selfish and very honest - I want it 90 % of the time. Give it to me!