Communication. I need to be desirable to my partner, like you said. Possibly a really good tongue? But that can be learned.
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Originally Posted by abaya
Agreed. Feeling hotly lusted after (like a piece of meat, no joke) is actually one of the more central aspects of my sexual needs with my husband, I've discovered. I know it's not rocket science, but it took me a while to acknowledge it, go figure.
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Yeah, it makes you feel good about yourself and you know that the man is putty in your hand. Kind of a power thing.