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this is a tough question.
frankly, i dont see how anyone on a messageboard could have enough information to say much that would be helpful for you.....
the problem isn't whether you have down periods or not--not per se--it's more about whether they get in the way of being functional (not to mention relatively happy in a kind of insane world)---so if you want advice (that goes beyond agreeing with what you post as an op simply because you're basically asking us to agree with you):
why do you think she is saying this (if answering would not involve compromising privacy too much)?
has she explained it?
most folk would explain...it's a kind of heavy suggestion to just drop on someone...
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