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To clarify, I don't talk to her with a high and mighty attitude. I'm much more delicate however I expressed the situation in this manner because it was much faster to write.
I get what y'all are saying, back off and let her do her own thing.
Also, please don't preach to me that she's mild just because she's living in a house and at school. That's already been established. I don't want her to lose her mind one day because she's depressed and doesn't have any friends in RL. Just a concerned sister. All I want is for her to have everything she wants in life and right now it sounds to me like she's lacking many things that I on the other hand have. I feel guilty about it as well along with helpless.
She calls me crying about her bills and credit card problems and complains that my parents don't love her enough. (she's always accused me of being the favorite) I suggest maybe if she called them more often and updated them on her life she would feel more connected. My mom travels to ATL at least once a month for work so she sees her and takes her grocery shopping and to lunch whenever my sister decides to make time.
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