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Only you can decide whether you can live with the situation and either decide to accept the laziness, try to change her (not liikely), or bail out. Also it has been my experience that there are two sides to these stories.
You guys have been together for half your lives so you probably know that she is not going to change much. For what it's worth, I know several guys who are divorced and remarried who are going through problems in their second marriages. One comment I overheard was "If I had put this much effort into saving my first marriage, I would never have gotten divorced".
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