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Originally Posted by Nisses
I suppose I use my friends like other people use a psychiatrist?
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Nice for you, not so nice for your friends!!
I only say that because many of my girlfriends tend to rely on me instead of talking to a professional (a grave error on their part, if you ask me
). Of course, that also depends on me allowing them to vent to me, which I do, for the most part.
But still... one of the things that got me into counseling was when a friend of mine got tired of being my own personal sounding board and told me that my friends deserved better treatment than that. Ever since then, I've reduced the amount of psychoanalysis I do with my girlfriends (although they have only seemed to increase their own since then).
Just my two cents about that kind of conversation going on too long...