I don't think I am getting the full picture here... maybe if you posted pictures of your problem I might be able to understand more fully.
I kid, I kid.
I can appreciate your frustration but in my experience, a flash of a bra is relatively common and nothing to be especially upset about. I also understand that some women simply have problems finding bras that fit them. Maybe some of the women on board can suggest a place to go where you will find more options.