analog

The first words out of my mouth, after I initially shrieked the word "boobies!" in boyish celebration in my head, was "boob.... problem?"

So she accidentally flashes her breasts at times. The next time you see them, or think you catch someone seeing them, just say to yourself, "that's right... those are all mine, buddy." Others can think about whatever they want, but you're the only one who can actually take hold of those lovely boobages and go to town.

If you're going to stand on the sense of ownership (which I identify with and don't believe is misogynistic), then TAKE that sense of ownership. Those are YOURS. Only YOU get to have them. Some lucky duck might get a sneak peak, but only YOU can prevent forest fires- I mean touch them.

Yes it's intimate, and yes it's your wife, and yes yes yes everything else. But. It's not like she's parading around like a whore wearing electrical tape over her nips and a thong to work. She can't find clothes that keep the girls under wraps, and covering up more is downright uncomfortable for her. It may be psychologically uncomfortable for you to know she may flash here and there, but physically uncomfortable for her is something you should really put more care into, as the husband.

So... your mental discomfort, which is something you can likely work on, or her physical discomfort, which she can't do a thing about? Those are your options. You seem like a good guy. Choose the right one.