"Girls just wanna have funn!"
When I hear that a guy is stressing about going out with a girl or trying to meet a girl or trying to have sex with a girl I always tell them the same thing.
When you go out (no matter the circumstances) your goal should be to enjoy yourself and to have a good time. This way you can't lose, there are no expectations, no stressing, just a plain ol good time.
I think this applies to you as well. If you're goal is to meet someone or even 'figure out' the person you're spending time with then it puts expectations on the evening. Go out and have a good time. If it's meant to then the rest will fall into place.
Good luck!
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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