Baraka_Guru

Crompsie, as you know, we've had similar experiences. (Though I would add that your case is far more hurtful than mine.) You know my thoughts are with you on this; keep strong.

I would think you have two options:

1. Simply throw it out and not think about the matter again.
2. Cut your last initial out of each sheet and send the stationery back to her.

Regardless, no matter what, don't think too much about it. I think you're right about number 5. And, yes, hug your cat.

__________________
Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön

Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot