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Old 11-11-2007, 08:39 PM   #190 (permalink)
Aladdin Sane
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Originally Posted by bloody_rose20
I know that its not the first thing on people's minds, but sex is a very big factor in a relationship. Ever notice in a relationship, if something is going wrong and both aren't happy that no sex is going on? Its simple, its just most people don't want to admit thats whats wrong with alot of marriages. That and not communicating. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of other factors of why relationships get ruined and why people cheat, but sex as I have seen it every time, is a key factor. So no its not just men who cheat or need to be there sexually 100% for woman, its the same damn thing the other way around for the woman too.
Yep.
It is often said that sexual problems are "a symptom" of other problems in a relationship. True, but it is just as likely that the problem IS SEX. If one partner is naturally less inclined to sexual activity or is a sexual prude, it is a huge problem for the relationship. Understand that it may be more acceptable to say the problem has its origin in "lack of communication" (for example) because of the social stigma against overvaluing sex. In this society, admitting that bad sex is the reason for your relationship problems is to suggest that you are hormone-driven and shallow.
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