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Old 11-10-2007, 04:10 AM   #18 (permalink)
Martian
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You won't regret this decision.

Your girlfriend cannot and should not control your decision making. You've made a reasonable attempt to include her in this, which is already going a step farther than you really had to; as has been pointed out it's very natural and healthy for you to have a life apart from her. You need to be your own person, which means (among other things) that you will occasionally be spending time apart. She needs to figure out how to be okay with that and that's the bottom line.
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