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Infinite_Loser · 11-09-2007, 11:49 AM

Some of the responses here sadden me.

If I were your girlfriend and you left me behind while you went on a trip to Japan, I sure as hell wouldn't be waiting for you with open arms when you got back. What I don't understand is why you wouldn't want your girlfriend to go along, especially since it's a "Once in a lifetime opportunity"? Considering the fact that you've been with your girlfriend for four years, it should no longer be solely about "You" but rather about "You and your girlfriend". It doesn't matter if your buddy invited her or not. The assumption of all long-term couples is that if you invite someone on a rather big trip that the other is also going to come along.

How would you feel if your girlfriend decided to go off to, say, Paris for two weeks and didn't invite you along? You'd probably be crushed, hurt, humiliated and would start to question your relationship.

11-09-2007, 11:49 AM	#12 (permalink)
Infinite_Loser Junkie Location: Lake Mary, FL	Some of the responses here sadden me. If I were your girlfriend and you left me behind while you went on a trip to Japan, I sure as hell wouldn't be waiting for you with open arms when you got back. What I don't understand is why you wouldn't want your girlfriend to go along, especially since it's a "Once in a lifetime opportunity"? Considering the fact that you've been with your girlfriend for four years, it should no longer be solely about "You" but rather about "You and your girlfriend". It doesn't matter if your buddy invited her or not. The assumption of all long-term couples is that if you invite someone on a rather big trip that the other is also going to come along. How would you feel if your girlfriend decided to go off to, say, Paris for two weeks and didn't invite you along? You'd probably be crushed, hurt, humiliated and would start to question your relationship. __________________ I believe in equality; Everyone is equally inferior to me. Last edited by Infinite_Loser; 11-09-2007 at 12:03 PM..