Hyacinthe

I disagree with this strongly. I'm guessing you don't know anyone that has ever been a victim of sexual abuse because some of the most scarring memories are the ones in which you enjoy it or you don't fight because you can't imagine life being any other way.

If you're forced you can say "well I didn't want it" you're left with less guilt, but when it's a situation when you only realise afterwards that it's not something you were equipped to decide it's so much worse. You blame yourself as much if not more then the person who took advantage of you.

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There's a reason sex with a child is classified as Statuatory Rape.

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