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Originally Posted by xxxafterglow
Hey Soma, good to hear you're doing better.
I disagree with dirtyrascal's EMO(tional) advice (sorry man) and you're proving that throwing yourself into something positive has really worked for you! In all fairness, I think dirty was trying to say you need to go through the grieving process to move on but you've managed to do that without totally wallowing in the pain. Props dude, way to multi-task!
Anyway, a round of applause for moving on from your first relationship. Nicely done.
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At first when I read this I was ready to get all defensive, but then I went back and read my initial advice... haha, yeah... I was in a strange mood that day. I'm usually much more reasonable.
I still don't like the idea of trying to completely forget... but it is necessary to distance yourself from the situation and memories. Distractions are a great ally in this process, as soma has clearly discovered. Good to hear you're overly busy! Keep it up!
