IL you said to be blunt so I am going to
I'm getting really sick of your attempts to enforce your own close minded beliefs on everyone else on this board. I'm also really sick of you talk of 'statistics' I have yet to see a single SHRED of proof for any of your talk such as
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threesomes are the absolute best way to ruin a relationship
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Wow you showed us a class exists and that you take it - I am sooo impressed for all we know you could be failing or sleeping through every lecture. You haven't linked a single verified scientific study. So from what I can see you're saying your beliefs are proven everyone elses are a load of BS and yet you have no proof to back you up - this attempt at justification of your beliefs in numerous thread aggravates me.
For someone that is so vocal about how everyone ignored what he's actually writing you seem to see only what you want to. Try reading some of the other posts
(apologies to Mods I know I'm not being as nice as I try to be, maybe I should have waited til the novocaine actually wore off but ....)
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Mandy
I've been involved in an ongoing 3-some situation with a married couple for a few years (they moved earlier this year so we ended things).
What happened with them was they invited me over we sat down had dinner, they sent their kids to the Grandmothers place and then we all sat around and they just asked me.
"Hy (well they used my rl name but yeah), there's something we have wanted to ask you for awhile now and haven't worked out a subtle way to do so. Therefore we're going to be really straightforward about it. Is there any chance you would consider being involved in a 3-some with us?"
Ofcourse we were very close friends and they had made it clear they were both attracted to me more then once. I believe complete honesty is the best way to approach issues like this.