If she has to think about it and the guy REALLY wants it then HE should be the one to offer to make things fair.
If she decides she does not want to return the favor then he is off the hook, but if she does then he should just pick out the most "soft and flexible" choice there is and tell her to go slow.
If however he did not take it easy then, you better be ready to leave the relationship at that second or pray it is not "her turn" you get what you give
This is the same tactic guys use to get a BJ, you do me and I will do you, with the guy trying to back out at the last second or just basically ignoring it and making it worse
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