I agree there, but usually in a relationship, you both should agree to try mostly everything once to see if you will even like it. My man I knew was an assman from the beginning and I was not thrilled at the fact he wanted to try anal on me. Now, we both were just barely not virgins anymore with eachother and I have never once been interested in anal when watching porn. But, I told him I would try it once to see if I liked it and if I didn't we would never do it again and he agreed. Needless to say I loved it haha and since then he has let me explore him more anal-wise becuase now he has made me an asswoman lol. So when it comes down to it, that has nothing to do with compeating or trying to get personal gain. Tit for tat sometimes is what is asked when a girl is scared about trying something and figures if the guy will try it, then she will be comfortable enough to try it. Then again, I do agree there are some people out there that would say that just to get out of whatever they asked them to do. Which is totally wrong.
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