Ok...I'm 21 and I just moved in with this amazing guy. He's perfect and I'm pretty sure we're going to get married later on down the line. *Fingers crossed* We've been together for about...oh six or seven months now. Only thing is...we haven't had sex.
Now this isn't a problem at all. I love him for him, not for the physical aspect of our relationship, but let's face it, a women has to get her fix too!
So I talked to him about this little problem because I've started to notice that every time we start to get physical, he feels like he's holding back. It almost feels like he's scared I'm going to object to something he might do. (Which is definitly the complete opposite, I might add)
Well, he says that he is just not the type of guy who likes making the first move toward sex and that if I really want it, I'm going to have to do it! Now, I'm not a virgin by any means but I'm not a whore either. I'm really very shy when it comes to these things. So...basically what I'm asking here is what are some ways to get things started that aren't just completely over the top. I'm talking about easy little things that will let him know that I'm ready and willing. And something that will turn him on so he'll have to do something! LOL!