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LadySin · 10-16-2007, 04:46 AM

I will play follow the leader here... Here is my list, and I think Ill go in order.

1. Kids - I have two very beautiful children from my past, and they come first in my life. I am not looking for someone to be a "daddy", but they have to accept that I have children and cannot have anymore. I also don't want a man with any, two is enough for me. They also have to accept that I need to talk to my ex sometimes, and not get jealous or suspicious about it.

2. Mentally stable - Yes, no more crazies for me. *cheer* If you have a background of mental institutions, hit the bricks. Me and my children, deserve better. I agree with most of you ladies when I say, no clingers. I should be able to go in another room without him by my side asking me what I am doing. I have kids for that

3. Criminal Background Clear! - Traffic ticket, eh, ok. Everyone gets a speeding ticket or something of the like at some point, no biggie. Felonies... No. Jail time... No. Prison time.... No. No criminals for me! Been there done that, got the TShirt that exclaimed "I'm with Stupid" with an arrow pointing to myself...

4. Financially stable - I absolutely refuse to take on another child. And a man without a job, is a child to me. This one not only refers to his job, this also refers to his home. He needs to have acquired a place of his own. Apartment or house, does not matter. But I will never date another man, who at the end of the night, wants me to sneak around so I don't wake his mother.

5. Intelligent - At least have a half of a brain! Just half maybe? Come on... please? I want to be able to hold conversations that are more than "Hey, that was good pizza.". I love music, movies, cooking, etc. But I also love wrestling (yeah I know), video games (daydreams about the XBox in the living room), and computers. I love to talk, so show me you have something good to say.

6. Sense of humor - I love to laugh, he should too, and he should like to make me laugh. I love it when men do silly things. Gags and the like are fun. Just know when the right time and place are.

7. Maturity Level - Ok, so I am 23. Doesn't mean I act it. I also do not date men around my age. I require a minimum of 5 years older (early 30's actually is perfect for me). But please, know when to have some fun. Chasing each other around the house, tickle fights, and wrestling around the floor (or bed) is a lot of fun. Just because we are adults, doesn't mean we cannot have fun.

8. Sex Life - He has to be able to keep up with me. This is my biggest complaint about men, most of them (I say most because my current boyfriend seems to have no problem with this) cannot keep up with my sex drive. And I want a man who likes to explore different styles (I mean geez ladies we know there is more to sex than missionary right?! haha) and likes to try new things. Understands my reasoning when I explain to him that I'm not bringing others into the relationship. Does not turn up a nose to public displays of affection. And he has to make me feel wanted.

9. Family Ties - He has to have good relations with his family, and understand I have good relations with mine. I talk to my family somewhat often, and I like to see them when I can. My parents are very odd. I don't expect everyone to love them, but at least try to get along with them.

10. Friends - Almost the same as family for me. I have a few really close friends. Accept that they are my friends. They are more important than any man that comes into my life. So, don't get irritated when they call at weird hours of the night, post weird comments on a site I am on, or drop me random emails or letters. We also have weird ways of showing affection and are very vulgar towards each other, it's normal, and we don't mean half of what we call each other.

So there is my list...

Enjoy!

10-16-2007, 04:46 AM	#21 (permalink)
LadySin Upright Location: Houston, Texas	I will play follow the leader here... Here is my list, and I think Ill go in order. 1. Kids - I have two very beautiful children from my past, and they come first in my life. I am not looking for someone to be a "daddy", but they have to accept that I have children and cannot have anymore. I also don't want a man with any, two is enough for me. They also have to accept that I need to talk to my ex sometimes, and not get jealous or suspicious about it. 2. Mentally stable - Yes, no more crazies for me. cheer If you have a background of mental institutions, hit the bricks. Me and my children, deserve better. I agree with most of you ladies when I say, no clingers. I should be able to go in another room without him by my side asking me what I am doing. I have kids for that 3. Criminal Background Clear! - Traffic ticket, eh, ok. Everyone gets a speeding ticket or something of the like at some point, no biggie. Felonies... No. Jail time... No. Prison time.... No. No criminals for me! Been there done that, got the TShirt that exclaimed "I'm with Stupid" with an arrow pointing to myself... 4. Financially stable - I absolutely refuse to take on another child. And a man without a job, is a child to me. This one not only refers to his job, this also refers to his home. He needs to have acquired a place of his own. Apartment or house, does not matter. But I will never date another man, who at the end of the night, wants me to sneak around so I don't wake his mother. 5. Intelligent - At least have a half of a brain! Just half maybe? Come on... please? I want to be able to hold conversations that are more than "Hey, that was good pizza.". I love music, movies, cooking, etc. But I also love wrestling (yeah I know), video games (daydreams about the XBox in the living room), and computers. I love to talk, so show me you have something good to say. 6. Sense of humor - I love to laugh, he should too, and he should like to make me laugh. I love it when men do silly things. Gags and the like are fun. Just know when the right time and place are. 7. Maturity Level - Ok, so I am 23. Doesn't mean I act it. I also do not date men around my age. I require a minimum of 5 years older (early 30's actually is perfect for me). But please, know when to have some fun. Chasing each other around the house, tickle fights, and wrestling around the floor (or bed) is a lot of fun. Just because we are adults, doesn't mean we cannot have fun. 8. Sex Life - He has to be able to keep up with me. This is my biggest complaint about men, most of them (I say most because my current boyfriend seems to have no problem with this) cannot keep up with my sex drive. And I want a man who likes to explore different styles (I mean geez ladies we know there is more to sex than missionary right?! haha) and likes to try new things. Understands my reasoning when I explain to him that I'm not bringing others into the relationship. Does not turn up a nose to public displays of affection. And he has to make me feel wanted. 9. Family Ties - He has to have good relations with his family, and understand I have good relations with mine. I talk to my family somewhat often, and I like to see them when I can. My parents are very odd. I don't expect everyone to love them, but at least try to get along with them. 10. Friends - Almost the same as family for me. I have a few really close friends. Accept that they are my friends. They are more important than any man that comes into my life. So, don't get irritated when they call at weird hours of the night, post weird comments on a site I am on, or drop me random emails or letters. We also have weird ways of showing affection and are very vulgar towards each other, it's normal, and we don't mean half of what we call each other. So there is my list... Enjoy!