I'll give you some real life experience.
I am 42, attractive and I have never dated a man for his money, his looks or because he seemed 'bad.'
Not even when I was 18 years old. I've always been 'turned on' by 'the click.'
I'm talking, hanging out, laughing and something just clicks and bam! that person is irresistibly attractive to me. Consequently, I have also been talked up by rich and extremely handsome men before and they are subject to the same exact standard. Funny thing is, as of yet, none of them have made the grade.
I have had bad relationships, good relationships and relationships that just ended.
What you guys are perpetually doing is limiting yourself to one particular subset of females. Perhaps, subconsciously you tell yourself that if you get one of these 'unobtainable' girls then you are a better, stronger, more desirable man. But really all you are is a fool. Talk about being used...who's using who? They're just as fucked up as you are. You're better off being the 'cuddle whore.' That relationship, at least, is somewhat real (someone else already said that, I think, so I reiterate).
But at any rate, stop using your fuck-schemas to dictate what is going on all over, because you're just being obtuse. And what's worse, you're limiting yourselves to a world where relationships are a game to be played like 'guerrilla marketing' or any of those other covert persuasion (ie, lying) bullshit sales/influence theories. Do you really want to live your life that way?
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Last edited by mixedmedia; 10-10-2007 at 06:37 AM..
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