well what i meant by my earlier post is that it's true if you can see through it's "radical honesty" approach, and downsize it's hyperbole to the men's primary factor being "attraction" and the women's being "financial security"
It's true, women don't want to waste their time with a man who cannot provide for them in a long term relationship.
Long term, think long term.
you can spend 5-10 years with a guy and if he's still a bum, he's still mooching. it doesn't matter how charming and funny he is, you'll have the instinctual want for a better "provider", one more efficient at the hunter/gatherer aspect of modern society.
This isn't a bad thing, it really isn't so just admit that it's true. Because if you settle for less, you're just a doormat.
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