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I think it's interesting how Ladder Theory discussions almost always become long and spirited. I think there's a kernel of truth in it, personally. I've been on both ends of its stick, as the "cuddle bitch" and the (perceived) bad boy who gets the girl. It's not scientific by any means, but it does tend to predict and explain behaviors of a certain segment of society. I think it's primarily driven by college-level experiences. The Theory is strongly rooted in late-night coffee shop philosophizing and post-clubbing hangovers.
Once you leave the college phase and get a job and enter Real Life, I don't think it applies as much. You keep hitting on girls at clubs and bars, though, and it will rear its ugly head.
In the end, it's written by someone who's grown cynical, perhaps even misogynistic, and that will color your views on many subjects.
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