I'd tend to agree with the posters above, it is possible but you need time out.
In my experience you both need time and space, I've lost lovers and had them come back as friends years later, for me the time after the breakup I'm not rational about them I either hate them or still love them, you cant be friends with that intensity of feelings.
That said one of my closest friends is someone I had a relationship with 10 years ago, we both have other casual lovers, we sometimes end up in bed together and thats OK, we both understand where we are and have talked about it quite extensively.
Just my Story,
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