Willravel, you can count them on the fingers of one hand, just use binary
I am in a similar boat, just probably older and have seen & done more.
I know how many (roughly) but I wont say, I've been in love, I've had one night stands, I've seen escorts, hell I even fell in love with an escort more than once.
I guess some people would call me a slut, maybe they'd be right, but I'm not a bad person, I care about people and respect them.
For me its about respecting others, sex if its safe and fun isn't something to judge someone about.
YMMV,
OMS