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Originally Posted by abaya
NO. You can't.
Do not play games, do not try to be friends, do not allow her to contact you, and DEFINITELY do not contact her. It will not work. Period. If you ignore this advice, you'll think you can make it work, you'll come up with all kinds of justifications for why you can be friends... but at some point, the pain will sink in. And sooner or later, you will learn the same lesson that we all have.
Save yourself while you can. Avoid "being friends" at all costs. Move on.
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Word.
Want to point out that guys ALSO use their exes (the auxiliary girlfriend).
I think you'll just wind up clinging to each other out of habit, esp. cuz you don't have many other friends. She will become an emotional crutch for you (and you for her).
You should cut her out of your life and start hanging out with your other buddies. Take that notion that you might get back together or might be friends later on and flush it down the shithole.
This is how you will move on and get over it.