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In order to go from being lovers to platonic friends, both of you need to change your perspective on the relationship. For most people, that can take a while... it's not an easy thing to do, especially if the other person is sending mixed signals about their own intentions.
It will definitely be difficult to deal with if she doesn't even know what she wants. I've never been in an on-again/off-again relationship... in most of my breakups, it was clearly over all at once with little chance of working things out, so it was easier to try and move on.
I am friends with most of my exes, some closer friends than others. I think it's great that you want to still have her in your life... finding someone you connect with really well, friend or otherwise, is a rare thing and I don't believe it should be taken lightly. However, if you're both unsure of what you're looking for in your relationship, perhaps it's a good idea to take some time apart and evaluate your lives, both individually and together.
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