well my thoughts on this is if you dont wanna just be friends, tell her that.
then, just try to remove yourself from contact.
Seems like girls only react to being ignored for some reason. They dont want your attention unless they are afraid they might lose it for good.
*shrug*
unless she had a good reason to break up with you, she'll more than likely want to get back with you if she really misses you. The problem is that after the initial breakup, you have to stay away long enough for them to actually miss you so they can come to that realization.
but then again, if she doesn't miss you, then she wont be calling, and then she wasn't really interested in being your friend anyway.
in any case I'd just say stay on your own little island, and make her come to you. If she wants to hang out, make her come to you, dont jump in your car and land on her doorstep in 30 seconds.
She broke up with you, if she really wants to be friends, she'll make the effort. Keep her honest.
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