I too, am a Cali bred eclectic. I know what you speak of, as the California City life lost its appeal for me years ago. I now live in Louisville , KY and absolutely love this place. As for racial distraction, I don't see it here but being a white boy I am somewhat unqualified to judge. The nightlife, and for that matter daylife is far more relaxed and welcoming without a doubt, and people here actually smile, say hello to strangers, and care about the community.
I cant even express how happy I am to be out of California, and its made clear to me every time I visit family in San Diego.
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