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didn't have any mental anguish with the g/f when I was 21 she was 18. Neither of us was ready to have the child. she wanted to have an abortion, I didn't wanted to raise it.
Glad it didn't work out that way because I've lived an incredible life that brought me to NYC and done some amazing travels and seen some incredible sights. I would have not been able to do that if I had a child who would be 17 and gearing up for college.
Decide how YOU want to live your life and discuss it as such. If you are an asshole because she thinks you are selfish because you don't want to have a baby, and she wants to, well you can still do as you want to some degree. You just have the added responsibility of contributing financially and emotionally to this child for 18+ years.
I've made the decision now to not want to have children. It is something that I do wish to keep as does my wife of 5 years who is not the woman that I had gotten pregnant in my youth. No we broke up a few months later because she was cheating on me with a coworker.
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