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Originally Posted by ehh19
thank you midnight... yeah, i am there for her ... 1000%. we too were SOOO careful... we dont really know how this happened. but i know that she may want the abortion... which i am fine with (i am very pro-choice) but as i know it is very hard, i really thank you for the idea of counseling.... i know she is worth all my effort and much more....
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It sounds like you're a caring boyfriend... and while you may be in a really bad state of mind right now, that doesn't mean you don't have the underlying nerve and fortitude to take care of things- whether it be taking care of her if she decides not to keep the baby, or taking care of both of them if she decides she does want to keep it.
I assume that you plan on having kids at some point... and from the way you describe her, she sounds like "the one" you might possibly want to have kids with- at some point. If now is not the right time, then you have your answer. Some day- but not now. Consider telling her that. The better and more established your relationship is, the better your chances are of being successful in the long term.
Just don't fall into the "babies are relationship superglue" line of thinking. They don't bond two people together. You might think they do, and it might turn out that way in movies and TV, but that's not how it really works.
Either way, best of luck.