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Originally Posted by ehh19
i love this girl and i really want her to do WHATEVER she feels is right... but other than telling her that i am here for her no matter what and expressing how much i care for her, i don't know what to do.
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That's exactly what to do.
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Now, if you want to hear a story along with advice, read on. If not, re-read my first sentence. You already know what to do.
I got my girlfriend pregnant when she was 16 and I was 18. We decided to keep it and we got married. We divorced 7 years later. Having a child at such a young age fucked up our plans, so we changed our plans.
It's been 17 years and everything has worked out exactly as it was supposed to. As tough is things seem right now, they will work out whatever you two decide. 21 is young but you already seem to have enough wisdom to do the right thing right now. That's all that matters at the moment.
Good luck.