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Originally Posted by Fast Forward
You and your friend both have psycological complexes.
Your friend feels inferior and wants to prove (to herself actually) that she is better than you. She remains your friend because you're an easy target and others will tell her to piss off.
You, on the other hand, feel unloved and unappreciated and you think you can gain acceptance from your friend who will NEVER give you any. You continue to be her friend because she's always there and you mistakenly assume it's because she likes you.
My advice is to get brave, change your telephone number, and get some new friends based upon mutual kindness and intersts "in common".
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Or you could just act like an adult and tell her that her behavior bothers you. Dropping your friends with no explanation without communicating why there is a problem is childish. Just sit her down, tell her that you need her to listen and explain. If she doesn't change or want to hear your issues, then the above advice is appropriate. If the results are positive, you've saved a friendship.