First off, NEVER lie to your woman. That is the worst thing you could do. And 2, women always will feel insecure if their man watches porn, because admit it, you are fantasizign about screwing the chick being done on the porn right? There, in our minds you don't want us, you want that girl. Makes us feel like shit. Now, I don't mind porn, and my man LOVES it. But me and him have talked about it and we don't watch it all the time. I'd say about 1-3 times a month if that but we watch it together, even though he knows I am still not totally happy about it. But I know that if I am watching it with him, and pleasuring him while its on, then I know he is thinking of me, but also getting off on the porn so its okay. So I suppose you need to talk to her, and maybe get her to try what me and my man do. She will be iffy about it for awhile even if she agrees to it sometimes, don't pressure her, ease her into it. If she is willing becuase I was a hardcore not happy about the porn thing. So give it a try.
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