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Originally Posted by cyklone
Rape is a far cry from collaborating in a consensual fantasy of being overcome and forced where each person is still in control of events.
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Bingo! When a guy attempted to rape me years ago, I wasn't aroused at all. I'm not saying that some people aren't because I can't answer for every woman or man who was raped or had an attempt made on them.
However, it wasn't the same situation as when I have consensual rough sex. In that latter situation, I want to be with the person and I know that if I say stop, the person will stop.