Menoman

Good point Infinate.

From my experience, I think it's a huge cop-out and avoidance of issues when something like that is pulled.

If this guy wasn't taking the "working on the relationship" seriously though, I think the right decision was made.

Fuck 'em, he obviously wasn't as in love as you think or he would have taken it a bit more seriously.


But on the other hand, in his defence. Some women have a tendancy to want to nag about little shit, and if they nag and nag and nag, it gets truly difficult to understand what is really a problem and what is just a dumb little nag. Which usually also results in the situation she has described.


I don't really know what the real problem is here, but not being together seems like a fine solution since in possibility a) he wont take it seriously b/c he's not as in love as she thinks he is, or in possibility b) she probably won't stop nagging and the line between nagging and a true problem will always remain cloudy.


No matter what, the 2 points I posted above, are still the best advice for getting over it in my opinion.

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