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Originally Posted by Vindicated0411
The biggest problem we have is that we don't have enough time together.... My classes are already crazy and I barely have time for myself... I can't handle this relationship when I am not getting out of it what I need, and when I don't have the time to commit to it.....
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well you haven't delved into the specifics of what he does that you think he should take seriously, but everything I quoted above seems kind of contradictory.
"not enough time together" - so your logic is to cut him out of your life entirely, I could be wrong but, thats akin to saying 5$ isnt enough, and then throwing it away. It could just be me but I'd be inclined to say keep what you have with the guy if you really love him like you say you do.
because everything you listed implies that you have personal issues with your time management. You just said you dont have time together, time for yourself, and you dont have time to commit to it, so I mean, if you insist on breaking up with someone that you supposedly love, then at least have the decency to do it without putting any blame on him.
If this is the result of any latent issues you have with trusting him, because you're not there to constantly monitor him and make sure that things are alright then that something else entirely, but that may not be the case, I dunno, it just seems like you're over-reacting about the severity of your situation. if nothing else you could treat it like a long distance relationship while you guys are in school, sounds like with your time management issues it creates the exact same environment of not being able to see the other person very often.