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Originally Posted by Shauk
the whole dont ask dont tell approach doesn't work for any serious relationship. Eventually you have to know that your SO knows enough about you that if say, something comes up 10 years later in marriage, its not going to come across like you were "hiding it" If you want a completely open and honest relationship, that shit doesn't fly at all, don't preach it.
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if nothing else, you'll be free to find someone who isn't such a distrustful prude.
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Yep. I mean, if she's not marriage material, then go on hiding it... who cares, you're not trying to build up a strong foundation anyway, right? On the other hand, if you're serious about her and making it work in the long run, you've got to see eye to eye on the porn issue. It's one of those things that will plague your relationship in different ways until you get it resolved, or the relationship ends as a result. No good can come out of lying about something as central as your sexual satisfaction... if she doesn't like it, then you ought to find someone else who does.