Originally Posted by mandy

Secondly, Crompsin, you really have a very negative outlook on this matter Mr. whether it was said in jest or not. Is there nothing you appreciate about your ex?what made you fall in love with her in the first place?instead of looking at the bad, look at the good. what good he/she has/had brought to your life. put all the bad out of your head...sure, it's hard but it's worth the try to make sure you dont look back on a relationship or marriage and think about it as "a one liner".

before you can accept anything else into your life, you have to let go of the stuff that you are currently holding on to.because you cant go on clinging to what was and how it was back then. think about how it is now and learn to appreciate the fact what you had and what you've got.because if you dont appreciate what you have, there's no use trying to accept and appreciate something new, cos you just wont have the space in your hands or time in your life to do so.