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Old 08-28-2007, 02:34 PM   #11 (permalink)
abaya
 
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Whatever you do, stop lying to her. That will not help anything. Come clean about it, and let her decide what she wants to do. If it's that big of a deal to her, and it's that big of a deal to you (e.g. she doesn't want to try and be more open-minded, or work on the source of her insecurity, and you don't want to try and reduce your porn use), then that's a pretty big red flag.

Do you really want to be with someone that you have to lie to in order to make peace for the rest of your life? I don't think so.
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