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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
You seem to have real appearance issues.
No matter how hard this might be to believe, 99.9% of you guys don't look like George Clooney or Brad Pitt. Most of you are decidedly average-looking. Same goes for women. A lot of what you are perceiving, I'm assuming, is confidence and charm. Someone who has a lot of experience interacting with the opposite sex and a way with words is probably better able to communicate in a flirtatious way without the "flirtee" feeling threatened. Whereas, those who don't come off as light-hearted and cavalier are not. I think that's just a fact of life. Which comes back to my former statement that this sort of interaction should be avoided unless you are very sure about the camaraderie you feel with the other person.
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I'm not talking about 0.1 percent of guys. I'm talking about guys that women generally think of as good looking or "hot." Let's say the 20 percent of guys women generally consider to be better looking than the other 80 percent.
Do you really feel that the way a man looks is completely irrelevent to the way women react to him? Is it really all confidence, charm and having a way with words?