I've noticed that in the relationships where the friends with benefits thing just kind of happens there's usually someone who has feelings for the other person which is why it starts. But with the ones where you actually sit down and set rules ahead of time, things go wrong less often.
As far as my rules go,
-Do not kiss and tell
-Only leave marks in places that aren't seen often
-If he or I sleep with someone else we have to be told
-Protection always!
Rules are relative to each person involved which is why discussing things before hand is so important.
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