Originally Posted by james t kirk

You da man.

I don't have time to read all of these posts, I only made it as far as the above.

By and by, if the rest of the relationship is good, I would recommend that you put it behind you. If he's a good guy, then cut him a break.

I really doubt too many men would dump a woman if she was doing the same.

Men are like that. We fantasize about all kinds of wierd shit all the time. We want to cum on your face, we want to be tied up and have you step on our bags in high heels. We want you to wear a strapon and fuck us in the ass, and give us a golden shower. We want to fuck your sister, your friends, your mother even (if she was hot). And that's on a quiet day.

If he's a good guy and treats you well and you are happy most of the time, you'd be making a mistake dealing him the nine of spades.

If you are going to continue to bust his balls about this for years to come, then he might be wise to get the hell out rather than listen to it forever.

You've made your point, now let it go and see how things go.

What were you doing rooting through his computer anyway?