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Ever fantasized about someone else while having sex with your SO?
What if they were pictures of her friends but he didn't know who they were (for argument's sake - obviously not really the case here)? What if he downloaded them off TFP from the Titty Board?
How would it change things if the girl is a celebrity and he's got pictures of her friends from the tabloids?
What if she's got a bunch of porn star friends who's pictures are all over the internet? What if they're Craigslist prostitutes who regularly turn tricks with guys he knows?
These are all degrees of the same issue. Some are degrees of separation and some are acceptance.
My first post-collegiate relationship was with a bisexual sorority girl that thought a bunch of her friends were hot. We'd have mutual masturbation sessions with her sorority yearbook discussing who and how we'd seduce into a 3-way.
I completely agree that this is odd and that this guy should probably be on double-secret probation at best as far as this relationship is concerned, but I also think part of the problem with reaching a consensus comes from the fact that to whom and when guys jerk off is a moving target. For instance, is David Arquette, who's married to Courtney Cox, allowed to fantasize about being with Jennifer Aniston while he's having sex with Courtney? What about when he's jerking off? Can he use red carpet pictures? Clips from The Good Girl?
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