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I think it is creepy. But I also know that my wife would feel bad if I were to do something like this.
Is it really all that important to figure out who the consensus thinks was in the wrong or being irrational here? It obviously affected the OP enough to have her bottle it up and stew on it for months, so that is the important part for me. It bothered her, so therefore, to respect those feelings, he shouldn't do it.
And I don't think he has done it again since, so this to me is just another learning experience about each other for this couple. Some of you obviously can handle such things and don't experience jealousy from or feelings of inadequacy from some thing. Congratulations, that is great. Others do have offense at things like this. This is also just fine. People vary. Now he knows and can act accordingly.
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